Most everyone has heard of the infamous Kim Kardashian Sext Tape that has been seen in the media. These sext tapes often involve not so well known stars that supposedly have no idea how the tapes were leaked. But next thing you know these celebrities are getting rewarded with talk show interviews, posing on magazine covers, and the most common sex tape scandal follow up: a reality show. We all know that celebrities act as role models for youth, so it shouldn’t be a surprise when teenagers act in similar ways by sending their significant others nude pics via text message.
This is a phenomenon known as “sexting”. However these young people are not being rewarded with their own T.V. show but instead with charges being pressed against them. These minors are being charged as sex offenders, a life-long title, because they are supposedly creating and publishing child pornography.
How are these minors supposed to know that there are consequences for their “sexting” when their celebrity idols get rewarded with popularity and fame? Paris Hilton is now a household name because everyone knew of her sex tape. Kim Kardashian got her own show and is now one of the most popular celebrities out there. None of these sex tape scandal victims have been punished for their mistakes and experimentation, so why should a teenager? Especially when they only learned it from these STARS. It seems as though minors are always getting blamed and punished for their mistakes when they only make them so they can learn and grow. Adults should understand this and not punish them for it, especially with severe charges like being a sex offender. These celebrities are the ones who should be punished for their irresponsible actions. I mean, they’re grown! Why are their mistakes seen as opportunities for more FAME and publicity when the mistakes of these teenagers are seen as crimes?
There is no room in society for teenagers to grow and learn from their mistakes without having to face severe consequences. This is only going to result in more negative behavior, and probably much worse than the act of ”sexting”.
For starters if you have some sort of sexual fantasy or desire that you would like to be fulfilled you can use text messaging to let your partner know. Sometimes it is very hard to talk to your partner about things you desire so text messaging is a to say what you want without feeling any added pressure. Being able to send a text instead of having to say it face to face will make things more comfortable for you.
Text messaging can also be used as a form of foreplay. Stop thinking that foreplay can only happen in the bedroom. Foreplay should start way before the actual act of intercourse occurs. Through out the day you can send each other suggestive messages that will get them in the mood. Tell your partner what you want to do to them when they get home. Trust this will make for some mind blowing sex. The anticipation alone will make it well worth the wait.
Though text messaging can have a great affect on your sex life there are a few things you should be cautious about. DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT send text messages to a phone that is not exclusively used by your partner. These type of text messages are private and should not be able to be read by anyone else. Also never ever ever send text messages to a phone that has been issued to them by their employer. Those phones are the property of the company so anytime they choose they can go through that phone and see what has been going on.